
What to wear
What should my husband wear for maternity photos?
Some husbands arrive with one pair of pants and one shirt.
Some bring two shirts and two pairs of pants — just to be safe.
Some walk into the studio wearing jeans and a T-shirt, completely comfortable with the fact that this will also be their photoshoot outfit.
And every once in a while, a husband arrives with five or six luxury suits and more wardrobe options than his pregnant wife.
Honestly? All of these approaches can work.
Your partner does not need to become a different person for your maternity photoshoot. His clothing should reflect your family, your lifestyle, and the way you want to remember this chapter together.
The most important rule: he should still look like himself
The purpose of choosing an outfit is not to transform your husband into someone you would never recognize in real life.
If he normally lives in jeans and clean T-shirts, a casual look may feel completely natural.
If he wears tailored suits, loves beautiful watches, and never misses an opportunity to dress well, please do not leave those suits at home.
If his usual wardrobe is somewhere in the middle, simple trousers, a clean shirt, and a blazer can create a polished look without feeling overly formal.
The best outfit is one that complements your maternity look while still feeling true to the person wearing it.
The “one outfit is enough” husband
Some men want one clear instruction: “Tell me what to wear, and I’ll be there.”
For this husband, keep everything simple. A reliable studio combination may include:
- Black or dark trousers
- A fitted black or white shirt
- A neutral blazer
- Clean dress shoes
- A belt that coordinates with the shoes
This type of outfit works well with elegant maternity gowns, dramatic black looks, neutral fabrics, and classic family portraits.
One good outfit is better than five random outfits that do not work with the session. Please make sure everything fits properly, is clean, and is steamed before arriving.
The jeans-and-T-shirt husband
Then there is the husband who arrives in jeans and a T-shirt and has no intention of making the situation more complicated. That is also fine.
A simple casual look can work beautifully for:
- Jeans-and-bodysuit maternity portraits
- Calvin Klein-inspired styling
- Barefoot family photographs
- Clean white or neutral backgrounds
- Relaxed black-and-white portraits
- More natural and intimate images
The key is to make the casual clothing feel intentional. Choose:
- Clean jeans without excessive distressing
- A fitted solid-color T-shirt
- Black, white, beige, gray, or another neutral color
- Clean shoes or a barefoot look
- Clothing without large logos or distracting graphics
Casual does not mean careless. It simply means the photographs will reflect a more relaxed side of your family.
The husband who brings more outfits than his wife
And then we have the opposite situation. He arrives with multiple luxury suits, several shirts, carefully selected shoes, watches, accessories, and enough options for his own editorial campaign.
Please bring them. A man who enjoys fashion should not have to reduce his personality to one basic shirt simply because this is a maternity photoshoot.
A beautifully tailored suit can work perfectly with:
- An elegant maternity gown
- A dramatic black dress
- Gold or jewel-tone styling
- Editorial lighting
- Formal family portraits
- Luxury magazine-inspired images
We may not use every suit he brings, especially when the maternity package has a specific number of looks. However, having several coordinated options allows us to choose the strongest combinations.
And yes, occasionally the husband may receive nearly as much wardrobe attention as the pregnant woman. We will allow it — as long as he remembers whose maternity session it is.
Dress for the family you actually are
Your maternity portraits do not have to imitate another family’s lifestyle. If you spend weekends in jeans and sneakers, you do not need to pretend that you attend formal events every evening. If dressing beautifully is part of your lifestyle, there is no reason to make the session artificially casual.
Think about how you would like your family to be remembered:
- Relaxed and natural
- Clean and timeless
- Elegant and formal
- Modern and minimal
- Bold and editorial
- Luxurious and fashion-focused
Your husband’s clothing should support that direction. The goal is not for every family member to wear the same color. The goal is for everyone to look as though they belong in the same photograph.
Coordinate — do not match exactly
Your partner does not need to match the exact color of your maternity gown. Instead, his clothing should complement the overall palette. For example:
| Your maternity look | Partner outfit |
|---|---|
| Black gown or bodysuit | Black shirt, black trousers, or dark suit |
| White or cream gown | White shirt, beige or gray trousers, neutral blazer |
| Jeans and bodysuit | Jeans with a black or white fitted T-shirt |
| Red statement gown | Black suit or black shirt and trousers |
| Gold styling | Black, cream, tan, or a carefully selected formal suit |
| Soft neutral fabric | Beige, cream, gray, brown, or muted earth tones |
| Dramatic editorial look | Dark tailored suit, black shirt, or structured blazer |
These are starting points, not strict rules. Final combinations depend on the specific wardrobe, backdrop, lighting, and overall direction of your maternity session.
What should he avoid?
Whenever possible, avoid:
- Large logos
- Bright graphics
- Very busy patterns
- Clothing that does not fit properly
- Wrinkled shirts
- Athletic shoes with a formal outfit
- Bulky objects inside pockets
- Several unrelated colors competing for attention
Before photography begins, remove phones, wallets, keys, and other items from the front pockets. These objects can create visible shapes under the clothing.
Check socks as well. They may become very noticeable when sitting or kneeling.
Fit matters more than the brand
An expensive suit that fits poorly will not automatically photograph better than a simple, well-fitted shirt. Pay attention to:
- Shoulder fit
- Sleeve length
- Trouser length
- Shirt fit around the chest and waist
- Whether the jacket closes comfortably
- Whether the clothing allows natural movement
Your husband may be asked to stand, sit, lean, hold you, place his hands around your belly, or interact with your children. His clothing should allow him to move comfortably through these positions.
How many outfits should he bring?
For most maternity sessions, two or three coordinated options are enough. A practical selection might include:
- A formal option: suit or blazer with trousers
- A simple option: black or white shirt with trousers
- A casual option: fitted T-shirt with jeans
If fashion is an important part of his personality, he may bring additional options. I will help select the outfits that coordinate best with your maternity wardrobe and the number of looks included in your package.
Bringing six suits does not necessarily mean we will photograph all six. But it does give us something to discuss while his wife is finishing hair and makeup.
Does he need to attend the entire appointment?
No. Your partner does not need to sit at the studio through professional hair and makeup, wardrobe planning, and every individual maternity look.
We can arrange for him to arrive closer to the family portion of the session. This allows you to enjoy your individual photography experience while he avoids spending several hours asking: “Are we almost done?”
Once he arrives, I will provide complete posing and positioning guidance. He will not be expected to know where to stand, what to do with his hands, or how to look natural in front of the camera.
A simple packing list for him
- One pair of black or dark trousers
- One clean black shirt
- One clean white shirt
- A fitted solid-color T-shirt
- Clean jeans
- A blazer or suit
- Coordinating shoes and belt
- Appropriate socks
- A lint roller
- Optional watch or simple accessories
Luxury suits, formal shoes, and statement accessories are welcome when they reflect your personal style and coordinate with the planned maternity looks.
Bring the version of him you want to remember
The husband with one black shirt is welcome. The husband in jeans and a T-shirt is welcome. The husband arriving with six luxury suits, three pairs of shoes, and his own garment rack is also very welcome.
Choose clothing that reflects who you are as a couple and how you live. I will help turn those choices into a maternity gallery that feels connected, polished, and personal to your family.
Frequently asked questions
His outfit should complement your maternity wardrobe while reflecting his usual personal style. Black trousers, a clean shirt, a blazer, jeans, a fitted T-shirt, or a tailored suit may all work.
No. A suit is an option, not a requirement. Casual clothing can work beautifully when it is clean, well-fitted, and coordinated with the session.
Yes. Jeans work well for relaxed, modern, barefoot, bodysuit, and Calvin Klein-inspired maternity portraits.
Absolutely. Bring the options that represent his style. The final selections will depend on the maternity package, available time, and planned looks.
Your clothing should coordinate but does not need to match exactly. Choose complementary colors, similar levels of formality, and pieces that belong within the same visual direction.
A subtle pattern may work, but solid colors are usually easier to coordinate. Avoid patterns that compete with your maternity gown or draw attention away from faces.
No. Natalie provides complete posing and positioning guidance for both partners throughout the family portion of the maternity session.
Sessions take place at Natalie Vell Studio in Roseville, California.
